Swimming in a pile....

Everyday I need to find the pony in the pile of horse shit piled on top of me. -a quote from a blog I love (Betrayed Wive's Club). His choices will not define me. He cheated on me-which was entirely about him and nothing about me.  I am not a victim. I am a survivor under a pile of horse shit. Living well is the best revenge. Lord, help me live (truly live) again.